Adapation ?? ..

The way humans treat their environment is pretty well known ..

Now , I want all the earthlings to know how their little little environment, has an influence over you ..

Your situations … your circumstances .. and their influence over you is quite something you know ..

I will also be talking about the situations though which I am going ..

One may have very difficult circumstances in life ..i will talk about what me and some of my friends are facing .. we study in our NUALS .. and we have loads of work ..

And we have huge levels of frustration going around ..

And these things have a huge impact on you . .. almost every situation in life has an impact on you ..

Now .. most often you earthlings and even me myself, have no control over how these situations can impact us or influence us ..

However, I would like to say that one can , have a control over these things and how these things influence you .. by having the right attitude, by making best of each and every situation ..

Like for eg; , the levels of frustrations we are going through, instead of complaining all about it, we can either adapt to it and survive well …

Now about adaptations, .i know the humans of earth have had difficulty with it ,,they seem to have forgotten about the whole thing///

The problems that comes when you are faced with a problem is .. that they think in a confined manner… for eg , if one thinks to such an extent or such a degree that he realizes that the problems that he faces are not because of him, but they are so just by their nature, and that he cannot do anything to control it ..

Now what happens when a person realizes that he is facing a problem to which is out of his hands .. he can either start complaining about it ,. This is the instinctive behavior of most earthlings .// however some blame it on fate and continue to live .. Not in a very happy manner though .. However these people live their lives better than those who complain about it .. some won’t even bother to do anything they will just live …

It would be always better to accept things, move on with it and adapt to it ,.. if there is no way at all, they should think creatively to find solutions, they should not give up completely and accept and go on living just luke that ..

But the key word here is adaptation ..

Humans have forgotten about this whole adaptation thing//

So , earthlings .. keep in mind that adaptation is very important for your survival … !

Ah !!! .. Friends !!

Now I talked about me , my family and now I think I should be talking about my friends …

Well, hmm starting form kindergarten .. I had this friend called Krishnamohan ,.. he was a good friend of mine for a very long time .. till third standard it is ..

And then I changed schools . I would not come to know of him ofr a very long time ..

So this was the friend that I got from Chinmaya Vidyalaya ..

Now, I studied at Public School of pattnakad.. this school has played a very important part in my life. . it was not walk in the park for me there,, I had to really study to get even pass marks

My close friends there would be Sujesh, NIkhila, and Arunraj ..

I changed schools again after 6^th standard…man that school brings back a lot of memereies

Then came the favourite scool, I studied in NsS hSS tripunithura. . NO more chanign of schools Yeah !!!

Bulk of my friends come from this school,,,, some very good friends are Uma, nikhil … and so on ..

I should talk about paul now .. this guy is very very good friend of mine , I keep good contact with him, a really fun guy to be with ..

Then ..i did not get admitted into any university, I took a year long vacation .. now I got Vidya and Rahul, both my school mates , maintained a lot of contact with them and Uma too .. and aravind

Then I got into NUAlS .. now I have many friends like ajay, ishan , rishi, Christy, anjalai, gaya3 … and the list goes on and on and on …now as people mature, they get better friends ..

Now … friends do play a very important part in your life, Man being a social animal , he should be having a pack .. his family, and his friends , can act like a pack ..

I do claim my self to be a lone wolf. However the context in which I use it is different ..

And hey ,.. I know I haven’t mentioned a lot of my friends’ in this blog, don’t feel upset or anything about it that is meant for my friends…

Back again to the importance of having Friends .. its plain survival .. you need them to survive this life …

I am not talking about bare survival .. I am talking about living a life ..they are as important as your family .. the importance ,, the degree of the roles of friends might differ from individual to individual ..

So Earthling .. pay more heed to your friends .. don’t pick fights with them ..its not just being about picking fights .. be more with them ..

Try to understand them, try to think from their point of view . if at all a small fight occurs .

And be forgiving , if at all mistakes were thr .. live your life nicely. And friends play a very important part in it …

And now, stop sitting in front of this blog and go hangout with your Friends .. !

My FAmily ! ....

Now, what should be my second blog about???

Well, I will talk about my family..

My dad is a lawyer, mom is a doc, I got a sister, and Grandmothers..

I have got plenty of uncles and aunties.. and loads of cousins ..

I just wonder, that the prior generations of my family had on idea about family planning or what??

6 siblings and all ?? I bet it would have been fun its own way .. then again the times then must have been different ..

Hmm, is this all I got to tell about them ??

Well they are really fun people. Liberal and conservative at the same time …. Most of the time conservative..

They have given me choices, or maybe I was too demanding, that they had to give me choices..

However, I should say I would have had a very tough time, h ad I not been born into this family …and born into some other family, its like god made my family to suit my needs

Family plays a very important role in the development of an individual ..

And I think good about me.. so that explains it all, I owe a lot to them …and I am noy a son, tht everyone would desire to have

Its tough to handle kids like me ..[ I still consider myself a kid\

I am pretty sure that no one in my family will be reading this .. So that’s it for now !.. .

Me or you ??> .

Hey Earthlings !!!

Well, the last post wasn’t much ,,,

Even this post is going to be just like that …

ok now I will give you all the blogs to which I am an author ,,

www.mkpnuals.blogspot.com this is our batch blog, in which I am an author

www.iamsuraj.blogspot.com this is THIS blog !

www.surajtext.blogspot.com now, this blog,

I like it very much, I frequently update this one ,, it contains my favorite articles …I find copy pasting the articles to my blog better than book marking it …

so these are the blogs that I have …

and I have memberships in some community websites like orkut,facebook and all ..

I have provided the link for the same in the right side of this blog ..

Now .. more about me ..

I figured out that I am an ENTP after many online tests …

I am Suraj Shrikumar , presently a student of law , studying law in a university called NUALS .. located in Cochin …

I am also the resident of the small city called Cochin, located in Kerala , which is in India ..ok so I do live in Earth , but that doesn’t mean I am like you earthlings ..

Then what to say about me ..i am happy about the uniqueness of every individual …

I don’t try to fit into any group or anything .. I am just me ..

And then one more thing about me, I can go on speaking about me for hours and hours ..

I love myself, but that doesn’t mean I am self obsessed ..

you see :

I believe that one comes into this world all by one self, and one can be pretty sure that even if no one’s thr around you , one will be there for oneself ..

You Earthlings have all wrong notions about modesty and all, its very important that one love himself first, for only if he has learned to love himself , only then he can even attempt to love others , which is a much more difficult task .. now its not a very difficult and all, but if you try to love others first itself , believe me you will be missing a lot

Many say its your family that comes first, some say friends, and some big time losers even say their jobs or careers ..

Its you that comes first .try to understand yourself before attempting understand others ..love yourself , before you try to love others ..because you are the first thing in this world of yours //

So give proper attention to yourself .. have a proper assessment about yourself …

There’s nothing wrong in being confident, and also do advertise yourself ..

Believe me, you should be the one who’s talking about yourself, not others, who can go on talking a lot of trash about you , they might be trying to talk about you . but completely failing to do so …

And the moment one talks about himself, you earthlings say its boasting , and not being modest and all .. now that’s crap .. you got a right to brag about your achievements … so go on brag ..

Now people might see this blog as my clear attempt to justify myself .. and my behavior ..

See this is quite wonderful ..you should try it for yourself ..

Hmm, and by this time you will be wondering what this entire post was all about it, it was about me and you ..

I am SUraj !!

Greetings Earthling !!

Welcome to my World ///

This WORld as the name suggests is suraj's WOrld ...

I can go on for hours speaking about who Suraj is ,.. and what all you can find in his world ///

but,i choose not to do it ..
as time goes by, this blog , through many many posts will reveal everything ...